I think often about the word retirement. I have written about it before. It is so much, and yet not enough. It is not an ending only. It is a change, a transition, a movement. One we may get to plan for. Even when retirement comes through redundancy, whether voluntary or not, there is something significant about the ending and what comes next. We may need time to make some peace with what has gone before, what is here now and what lies ahead. And perhaps that is why I am inte

We often talk about retirement as if it’s a moment, a date, a line in the sand, a clean break between “work” and “life after work”. But in reality, transitions are rarely clean. Even when you’re organised. Even when you’re prepared. Even when you’ve planned well. In my work as a coach (EMCC), therapist (BACP) and HR professional (CIPD), I see this again and again: Planning helps the logistics. It doesn’t remove the emotional, relational or identity shifts that unfold over ti

Retirement is often imagined as a shift into freedom, time and ease. But in my work as a coach (EMCC), therapist (BACP) and HR professional (CIPD), I see a far more human truth: Retirement doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It happens in real life. And real life brings grief, illness, caring responsibilities, relationship shifts, financial pressures and unexpected change. It brings the quiet realisation that life after work is different — sometimes beautifully so, sometimes painfull

Retirement isn’t a single moment. It’s a transition — emotional, relational, practical, and deeply personal. For many people, it unfolds in stages. Not neat boxes, not a linear path, but a gentle rhythm of change that can help you understand where you are and what you need. These three stages — Anticipation, Landing, and Settling — offer a way of noticing your experience and meeting yourself with clarity and compassion. Anticipation: Imagining Life Beyond Work Anticipation be

Retirement is often described as a finish line, a reward, or a long‑awaited break. But for many people, it feels far more complex than that. There is an emotional landscape that rarely gets talked about — a mix of relief, uncertainty, possibility, and sometimes a quiet fear of becoming irrelevant. When the structure of work falls away, it can leave a space that feels both freeing and unsettling. This is the in‑between: the place between who you have been and who you are becom